Sometimes, just talking things out with your partner is all you need. This gives you a chance to talk about anything new you want to introduce into your sex pattern. Talking about your sex fantasies and listening to his/hers will go a long way in reaching new ideas... and getting it all hot again.
2. Being sexy is an action, a choice, a decision:
Sex doesn't always just happen. There has to be a hint, a sign. So it will not do for you to be grumpy with your partner when you feel horny and expect it to happpen. So dressing in something naughty or talking dirty or watching a movie with some hot scenes works. A guy in some tight H&M boxers or a lady in sheer or lace undies is simply saying "lets get dirty."
3. Initiate the new moves:
So you want to get oral sex from your partner? Well, it would be nice to give him or her a head first and then it would be easy to ask. When you first give, it would then be normal for your partner to oblige when you ask. Focus on pleasing him or her by stimulating the erogenous zones.
4. Be clean, be sexy:
How would you like to have sex with no limits with someone who smells? Its a NO right? Well, maybe the reason your partner doesn't want too go dirty with you is that you are dirty or you smell. So change undies, shower before sex and spray some nice fragrance. It all helps.
5. Be spontaneous and change locations:
Unplanned sex often has the more potential to be satisfying. Instead of waiting for the conventional bedroom, try catching your partner in the bathroom, kitchen or living room. The surprise will add to the beauty and dirtiness of the sex.
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